Dealing with Failure
In one poker hand, Jeff Ma went from betting a few thousand to betting $50,000 and losing it all with people screaming in the background. (Told in his book, The House Advantage.) He went back to his room to reflect on what went on. After reviewing the odds at each point, he figured out that he had made the proper decision each time. After that, he went back to the tables and won far more.
Life is full of failures. Ask any sales person and they will talk about the number of "No"s they face. It is how we handle failure that counts far more than whether we fail. People handle failure in many different ways. Some ways are helpful and other ways delay or even get in the way the hard work of moving on from failure. Too many managers treat failure as an opportunity to place blame rather than an opportunity to help the organization move forward.
In order to learn from failure, we need to properly identify why the failure occurred. The reasons can range from willful deviation from instructions to exploratory testing of an idea. Amy Edmondson lists a number of reasons in a Harvard Business Review article. They are: Deviance, Inattention, Lack of Ability, Process Inadequacy, Task too difficult for the person, Process hits a complexity limit, People are uncertain about what to do, Testing a Hypothesis, and Exploratory Testing of an Idea. Of these, the first two are the only ones where blame is properly placed on a person. Even with the Inattention, there may be ways to design the process so that inattention is minimized. The rest are opportunities to improve the organization.
For our organization to move forward properly from failure, we need to know the real reason for the failure. When we blame the person but the cause of the failure is one of the other reasons, we teach the wrong lesson. While the person might learn one thing, the organization learns that such failures are costly and becomes less risk taking.
Facing failure is difficult for most managers. This is human nature. We do not want to admit to our part in any failure. Yet, the failure chain can lead to the top. When we make it difficult to face failure, we actually make it more likely that the organization will fail.
The pressure of today's business climate mean that corporate leadership is focused on returning as much "value" as possible to the shareholders. Often employees will break the rules in order to deliver on that pressure. When top management has blessed that breaking of the rules, then the whole organization will hide the inevitable failure. A pattern of hiding failure sets up the company for catastrophic failure. (See Enron for example.)
On the flip side, so many successful entrepreneurs cite their many failures as why they are successful now. They are open about such failures and learned from their failures. "We fail until we succeed."